Thursday, May 19, 2011

Yang Lan to 80 after the girl's 14 advice

one: the girl has a taste
to the twenties, it has to start learning to run their own intentions, and it is reflected in their appearance and conservation, and every girl is special and should have their own unique taste, you may taste a lot of girls feel that is linked with the fashion or luxury, in fact, not a taste of things to observe is when a person's attitude, the same thing, different people look different the next version will appear, The value of the article itself is not related to the level of quality, the girls must use their eyes to appreciate one thing, the high-taste to pick the thing.
to some extent, a person's taste and her temperament is complementary, depending on the level of quality in the daily life of a girl on the discovery of new things, taste is its own unique flavor, every girl should have their taste, a cheap jewelry belonging to it as long as the wearing out of the alternative, it can express its own taste. When can I see more of the usual fashion magazine, to raise my own appreciation for clothing and other degrees.
II:
girls develop the habit of reading to the twenties, you have started slowly with the society, and in the process of interaction with others, conversation and self-cultivation is to conquer others. I do not believe that a girl does not like reading books, she is full of wisdom. When nothing, go to the bookstore shopping, pick a few serious books on the you can buy to upgrade their home to read, whether classics or the financial aspects of the terms or incentives have a place worthy of our study, the book allows people to rich life, but also to change people's minds can choose to read a good book, better than a good counselor.
like to read a girl, she must be silent and have a good mentality, because in the books of the sea, the girl can absorb the nutrients big mouth. Like reading the girl, she must speak correctly and elegantly intellectual export woman. Read carefully, allowing peace of mind, and books, lurked a lot of fun, when faced with a book of interest, you will find a pleasant mood, and each book have a lot of wisdom , read the books will be the girls in social capital, I believe no one likes a girl with a superficial interaction. Select the appropriate books, it can teach a lot of people philosophy, and will let you learn in a calm state of mind to meet life's pain or pleasure.
three: going to try to discover the beauty of life to the twenties
girl, it has to escape from those dark fiction, it only makes you more stick closer and sorrow, life is not a novel plot replica. Do not always remind myself the unfortunate experience to know in this world than you have a lot of people, unfortunately, as long as they looked up and saw the sun was lucky compared to those living in the frustration of a person's life it is only a small, but the episode again. Want to gain a foothold in this society, we must have peace of mind, the worry about the outcome of life, we always have the choice, but it also was chosen with others, we should have a spirit of Ah Q, suffering and joy of life is our choice Why allow yourself to wallow in the pain of it?
some people because of feelings of frustration or work yourself into an unfortunate thought, which led to a pessimistic person they will become, regardless of doing everything with fear, afraid of losing, or that he will not success. Advertised himself as a man what kind, she can only live in their own hearts to set their own prison, and who qualified to say that he will not succeed? Who can say he will not succeed? Who wants to succeed who are optimistic, pessimistic, always obstacles to success, only the positive sentiment will make life better, that tomorrow will be better than today, as long as you work, the society must be fair, Do not complain about life, otherwise you can only prove that no real effort.
four: good people with a thinking girl to make friends
twenties, it has to start a purpose to choose friends and social contacts in the very important, and you choose to join the Friends your life cycle will also have a great impact, if your friends are all positive and optimistic person, you will also be their infection, if your friend is a pessimist, complain about life all day long , but not down to earth work, a long time, You will also be infected. When in their choice of friends is very important, and sometimes if you want to know a person, his friend from what kind of person to understand his behavior. Do not make friends easily, but also pay attention to what people choose to make friends with.
a good friend can make your life has changed dramatically, and he makes you optimistic. After the girl to the twenties, how many more friends and selfish that is, to pay more of their helpful friends, you can learn something from them, but make friends, you need them paid in good faith, not just to want to use their contacts with them before, no one is a fool, You made a good or bad, others are clearly visible. With their own faith with those who thought it best to make friends!
five: the bubble away from the girl to the idol
twenties, it has to start from the false idol, the television in the Prince Charming and Cinderella are all life long for a boy or girl , it does not really exist, like the emergence of some drama in the plot sometimes deeply affected people's ideas, such as some TV shows will appear in the vicious mother in law, or even find people who love their own pro-siblings, etc. These circumstances is to make people's mood swings, and it does not link with real life, it is beyond the life of a girl should not indulge in such false fairy tale atmosphere, and have time seeing a few more to help their own programs.
want to understand the social and foam idol who can not, they are toxic, some people were poisoned deep, it will allow them to directly influence their outlook on life and values, like get rich or destitute in the life of a night may be, but not as those who played the television show simple and direct, there is no love and affection that will never be in the film and cruelty, drama affect people's ability to judge the community, so please stay away from the bubble idol . I believe a good girl, should not spend a lot of time indulging in idol dramas in the.
Six:
girls learn patience and tolerance to the twenties, it has to slowly learn patience and tolerance, and society is not a capricious place, the eldest of the temper that the convergence of a slowly because there may be some time because you care about to make you lose self-esteem, to be blamed for uneducated women. Good friendly people who smile, that is able to shame the other side, and can leave a generous and considerate to others a good impression. Patience is not weakness, nor is Shangzi Zun, but tolerant United States. Please put down the righteous bad temper, at the appropriate time to step in, not only reflect your virtue, but also make you a popular girl.
life will encounter a lot of unfair things that you will encounter many people who can not accept, we can not try to change others, very angry with the behavior of loudly accusing others, it is better to understand the mentality With give each other a smile, no one person will not hurt a good person. Hoarse arguing with others and can not win the so-called self-esteem, but you lose self-esteem.
seven: a healthy mind, body
girls focus on their own to the twenties, it has to learn to adjust their mentality, and properly protect their body. The body is the most important, I believe everyone knows, but when done really is not a simple matter. Twenties girl has been in the diet should be started to pay attention, and suggested read more about diet books. Any girl, do not order this or that reason not to take care of their health, no matter how good tomorrow, and you always a sick attitude to meet it, it does not feel it's better .
Eight: Let beauty be your girl to the capital
twenties, it has to start to play a role in your beauty, and at the appropriate time to hold enough of your beautiful voice. Good looks are not every girl has, let your good looks to become the capital, when needed with the use of it and it can open a lot of difficulties in your life, although sometimes people say that girls are beautiful vase However, if placed in a vase right place, it is art. Young girl beauty is only a short few years, so to make good use of your beauty.
but the girls can not because of beauty into complacency, has a beautiful appearance but also has the inner wisdom is the good woman, please girls and rational use of its beauty, do not because of their beauty and the short Let yourself sink.
Nine: left any one man, you will live well into their twenties
girls, we must deal with their feelings sensible, a lot of girls, because a man alive and painful and negative, Who can grasp the feeling things are not won, and why to be a man and let yourself in an unpleasant mood as well? One does not know how to appreciate your man, you are not eligible sad sad for him, every girl is beautiful, she was waiting for a man who appeared to understand her, a man of the left, can only say that a man who understands you has not yet appeared, a man not a girl who lives all
I thought I left him I could not live, then I asked myself a hundred times: to leave him, I can not live? Results One hundred twenty times the answer is: I will live well. The girls do not trample on their own, do not think that compromises will be able to return a man's love, love is beautiful, the girls are beautiful, and no desecration of a man! Appreciate you leave the men do not understand, this is the most magnificent turn, though unwilling, but it hurts, but so have no energy to operate your work or study.
Ten: with financial motivation, learning investments to business
twenties girl, we must learn to financial management, and do not think they will not be rich to spend money, but also do not think tomorrow is not earned End of the money, and make today should not spend money on the place. There are many on the market today books on financial management, are good, the girls have time to look at, to develop good financial habits, money begets money, you can read some more books on investment and operation, they are intangible wealth. Girls, no matter how much your income now, we must plan a future for you, the wise woman should know how to spend money, how money is actually an art.
Marry's husband is a very wealthy man, there are times she told me that he husband, she said: Sometimes my husband would rather spend a lot of money to buy something, but regardless of the time in Hua Xiaoqian. At that time do not understand, then think about only to find his money is the reason why her husband because he knows how to spend money, to spend money on something useful, no matter how much you can under the eyes without blinking, and life, some extra money you could save on the province. Some rich people will be shown in life mean, this is the habit they have been, otherwise, they will not become rich.
XI: Love and marriage is jointly owned
girl to the twenties, we must face the pressure of the marriage, and some people will say Love and marriage are two different things, a man married woman is able to live together , not necessarily their true love, a woman to marry is to give yourself a warm and comfortable home, but does not have to be that their true love. Faced with these words, like a lot of people are married to marriage, family and social pressures, in order to get married and get married. Some people marriage is a purpose may be to make themselves a place to stay, it may be helpful to the cause of the future, there may be what your body from the other side.
ask those sweet wedding, you know sometimes love and marriage is jointly owned, the so-called marriage is the tomb of love, can only say do not know how to operate the two sides of love, I believe when two people decide to get married , the two sides must have feelings for each other, just days after marriage for love become dull. This is just because after marriage, men and women have laid down their love of romance, into the work. Those who do not marry the girl, do not get married away for certain purposes, marriage is a very simple thing, Do not get so complicated, I believe that every girl is eager to love. When the girl met the man when his beloved, you will find, want him, it may not matter rich or poor, does not matter of life and death. Do not marry the girl to get married, and do not want a life to get married.
second: Who says women than men and girls to
twenties, we must firmly believe that whether in life or in the workplace, not only men could have done some, and now a trendy women's thoughts , a successful woman in all walks of life have emerged, as long as women work, she can also shuttle in the world of men. Women have a lot of capital, in the workplace, women slightly advantage in some industries, the women will play their own unique strengths to Pinbo with, they are beautiful, capable of temperament, the attitude of tough, can make a man surrender. Women do not always think about the development in the kitchen, the ability of the female talent that allows men to appreciate, the role of a housewife now unfashionable, the wonderful world out there waiting for a lot of women to pursue. Women do not want to attach
a man in this society, no one will be no reason to care who. How to attach a man a woman, she did not own thoughts, compulsive in this environment, men also like to have personality and capable woman. Who says women than men? To it, as long as you have your own piece of the sky, you afraid of this piece of sky without clouds it? As long as you are a talented woman and a man not afraid to enjoy the good you?
Thirteen: to find a husband can help you achieve your dream girl
to the twenties, it has to have a clear dream, and then to fight for this dream, when you do identify after a dream Do not change, just like when you find that can help you achieve your dream of a man, do find ways to make him as your husband. Some women dream of their own do not think one person can achieve, or some very good woman, maverick want through their own efforts to realize their dreams, but if backed up with a man, this dream can be well implemented, in particular, to provide financial support to the men.
life now seems to be little girls have dreams, some girls just want to have a simple work with simple love, and a man happy life together. But the real good men, they will want their wife is ambitious woman, so if a woman has a dream, a man will fully support. Women can make their dreams with a man to marry together with their own, as long as he is willing to help you achieve your dreams, to appreciate that he is your man.
fourth: let young wanton some smiles to some of
twenties, after the girl, that is, positive youth, youth can have a lot of unbridled brand-release. Girls can be stubborn when appropriate, we could be proud when appropriate, we could make those beautiful lips slightly affects. Is the most beautiful girls in their twenties, and can freely laugh, cry can be stubborn. Girls do not afraid of losing their twenties, youth is just beginning, we have lost the capital, we can re-start their pursuit. Twenties, most girls really do themselves, leave the most beautiful smile, so that the presentation of love are sharp, to Ganaiganhen, dare to seek.
after the girl to the twenties, is the most beautiful flower in full bloom, flowering season of girls just have to remember to open yourself to see, do not let their flowering period for others to accept unnecessary destruction. Twenties girl is a cup of tea, one of the delicate taste must be left to people who know, do not let people who do not taste the pure flavor of your violation. Twenties girl is the sky blue chip, but it is sad, it can be large, but, remember, it must be a pursuit.

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