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1, my husband and I are university students, including 06 after we got married my mother in my father's company. my husband more and more lazy the past few years, we can not say that he, one that he was sorry for him that our family, ill-treat him, even his parents stop him. He is not getting down to earth, and made the company a mess, and he had refused to go find another job. Recently he has screwed up the company a project, simply because he attracted me cause, he was a bit angry, and hid out refused to go home, do not say a divorce. our children only 8 months, I have to favor one thing the company also busy children, Faced with such a man really want to give up, what do I give this marriage?
If you only need for a to take care of him. If you do have this LG do not care, let him become someone else a good home Chenglongkuaixu. He did not play in your house his clever talent, and perhaps allow him to change the spirit of people Dousou.
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2, 37 men and 38 women were married, no children, male civil servants. a few months ago as a small family conflict argument, in January after a 22-year-old male with good on Miss K room, the message Telephone numerous appointments Saturdays and Sundays, and occasionally did not come home overnight. male date from the fight more and more indifferent to the women, the development of the house like a hotel restaurant, and the female sub-bed sleeping, and not with the woman saying a word. M not expressed to divorce. Q. Shun, men and women already know the relationship between K sister, and there is evidence, asked the men to go back to live well, or not feeling the need to break up, men are not ignored. women what to do?
he did not position from not leave, but if you do not stand, it means that he continues to play around and continue to condone you put cold violence. because it is remarriage, not strong emotional foundation, since he so rare KTV young lady, we better fulfill him. Civil married Miss, can be considered a new look for the new era should be supported.
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3, I focus on college English majors. This year in January to participate in professional eight results in the examination failed. but lied to his family has passed. felt very sad, guilty. I do not know how to do, want to do a false. I go to Belgium in August this year, graduate school, French lessons, but now completely lacking in confidence. is panic, very sad. say diploma only a piece of paper, but it is proof of ability, ah, really sad. they lie cheat family, a chain of lies I'd rather die.
2 more months before they go out, this February as long as you make good daytime and read English, the level of to enhance the piece. the face of difficult to hold on, with no fear of guilt, his own future on our own creation, not tasted bitter, how can I taste sweet? professional failed, we must seriously face the lie can only lie another moment, but cheated of their life. Do not go making up lies, and each lies need more lies to cover, then you'll live more tired.
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4, 26 female undergraduate, looks in on the family conditions of work are common. due to their own hepatitis B virus carriers, (also actively cooperate with their treatment, but this is not good like a fever that the disease), so talking in front of her boyfriend were to break up the two ends. a conversation 3 years, one about six months, and physical condition are beginning to establish a relationship clearly inform each other, do not mind the beginning, but after a period of time to talk about a variety of reasons not the reason for the breakup. such as: my eyes small and large family, her boyfriend unexpectedly encountered the road (I myopia), and so the reasons for breaking up a super funny, but I knew that, but I have hepatitis B virus carrier too, not to use this reason to break up and find other excuses Bale. the romance in the past to the past it, the question now is, I was not because of his physical condition necessary to lower the standard mate? such as looking for the bad conditions? or've never married?
is not meant to be your husband met the man before and gradually you will pick and choose to leave your others. not because he was sick to find they do not like not to will a lifetime, because the marriage will make you miss a single infinite. all revel the 4 Word is that the body is more than healthy people, breathing is also said to all and is ready to mate, did not revel in their heart, anxiety and self-willed inevitable.
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5, Guangzhou, 34 females, secondary school teachers. because of her ex-husband is addicted to gambling, no sense of responsibility and have an affair, one year after the divorce, married for ten years of separation. Pofeizhouzhe divorce, because his father and his real estate to write the name (the house is married to buy our own), as well as the debt problem, I also worth the prosecution, a final agreement houses owned by the child, 9 years old, custody goes to his (patriarchal unwilling to give me his house), he compensated me 10W. but 10W is IOU. even so I hesitate to choose a divorce . I took the children after the divorce he asked to live the original room (he did not want to take also brought bad), I agreed to the child. But he had not, even the children's living one thousand yuan a month paid on time no law ( He said there also do not tell him not to give, but Shashi Hou gambling money he has). Although I am not raising children, but often think of their own to pay so much, but what is not mine, and now still so hard . The most frustration is now home to the rain water seepage, repair and do not think my room, do not live Debu repair and comfortable. another mortgage to buy a house and overwhelmed. to him the child, the house to me, he not Ken.
Although I build, temperament is good, but a small circle of life, have children, has not the right object. now a man flies is somewhat lonely and helpless, some loss of future confusion. I should not have to He sold the house compensation I 10W, take a child hostage, asking me to take a one-time payment for child support, and then buy a house for himself? Or a child no matter altogether, plan their own life is better (so that he was too selfish, too cruel for children)? how to adjust under current conditions and life of my mind it?
gambler he is, you definitely want to destroy the child to his child, or led their own right. Now he may be forced sell to you that 10W, once again for support payments to clear, then, and his clean break from all the tubes, not between the. If he is not happy, then on the court, to change custody.
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6, and current boyfriend exchanges in January, we were junior high school students, who two years younger than me. I 26. He has not, and parents said. every date should get home before nine o'clock. They get along well, He said a long time and then tell his point, I am not afraid of a long time, delay their own. There is also a good description of the condition, fearing both missed the contradiction.
this kid only 24 years old, his family may will not support him so long married, so you better distance control and his contacts to see if it is not the man introduced bills you like, if other than the current boyfriend is also cute, and you have the right age, as early as possible for people. Also, you are also only contacts her boyfriend in January, how we should let the world just love to know? the best low-key points, friends and relatives began to try to hide it, if not go on about, but also at any time withdraw .
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7, today I checked the details of a single telephone boyfriend. He came home from the city, 15, from 5 to 14, he spoke of two woman closely linked. text messages sent over a hundred amended. I read the whole body shaking, I asked him? which one day he went to the field, I asked why he went, he said play with. I was depressed, was believed on him.'ve checked, then a single guess, after That he is dating with that woman go. also suspect that they go to bed, because he does not answer the phone during that time. it is over a half months, and he with me now because every day, did not talk to that woman to contact. I The question clearly? the check he told him that I would do these things alone?
obviously not always loyal to his loyalty to you, but, if you care about this derailment, and only one way to break up, ask, do not ask , the result is the same. If you do not want to break up, to force myself to forget this as soon as possible. PS: you all to check the other phone as a single detail: It is shameful, disrespectful people. If you have this hobby, but also the kind of multi-foot boat hit boyfriend, your relationship will not be good.
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8, less than two years we were married, male stay late almost every day, reason is not official and friend colleagues play cards. before that he had seen the opposite sex friends, so he comes home late woman always suspected the reason. no matter how busy it will not do it every day, in the end he is really busy or not busy? overall this thing is noisy. a man to emergency sometimes do not want to go home, said nothing, because the women go home to him sullenly. women that you come home late every day, I might be greeted with it? and chores such as cooking and washing dishes are also fighting. their relationship is not close, if not back to the late man, long time to call is received, female to guess what is not there are other things, but sometimes an explanation of men and women had not felt the way they want. He sometimes see woman phone call records. I did not think the trust between us, this marriage very tired, and now we are not children, do not know how to do? do not see the future.
marriage of run-in period, to pay attention to points ways, the Cold War would not have good results blindly. no kids at home when he does not love does not love you, as soon as children have more household chores, you do not expect him even more time to go home. be not to have children, continue to run it, it is no better that only gave up.
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9, I'm 23, home to a blind date. I hate this way, compared with a lot of times no results. I do not know how to communicate with them . This last two years younger than me, one began to feel fairly mature. to met a few, and that his side urging engagement, the reason I did not refuse, but we have not a common topic. engagement is like a dream, like the routine, Sometimes I do not know what is the relationship we have in the end. He rarely calls me, and I do not know what to say to him, we met him was his mother said to me, he will come. alienated than those prior to the engagement, which I changed the phone for two days, did not tell him, QQ is not on-line. I saw him give me a shout, asked me if I change number. fear of the awkward silence, afraid of him the phrase ? know how to be in this state. I support a move it!
he was 2 years younger than you, a 21-year-old blind children forced by their families, engagement, and then did not fancy you, but because of his family can only continue contact with you. This situation reluctantly, not some of you one, so you feel nothing to say, more and more alienated. In fact, so let it be to alienate to give up, do not enthusiasm and responsibility to force the other side, you and he, after all, is not very appropriate.
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10, I got married 3 years, children 3 years old husband of 33 years. these 2 years he was no good work, and now is playing every day game, doing nothing, do not do housework without children do not want to make money. I said, said, arguing also fights, he is still its own way, very decadent, immortality is not alive. made me life now gone enthusiasm and hope, a day to day. We are now eating his mother's rice, the days have borne Baba. clever sister along: In addition to divorce, I have other way? (because not bear children)
he it does not want good money, you put the children to him to take you out of work, ah, how can the couple are eating at home, the old nest, how long you can chew? This man is not responsible, then you are useless, women would not even think What a blessing shared with him, they do not suffer with him Suffering, even if you're lucky.
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11, I 25, at home in rural areas, hours of family poverty, as parents are not so hard I gave up reading, working out to feet room, various people have to spend, I know this person, leading cadres, 20 years older than me. I initially thought his phone, because I am more traditional, but then I also went to younger brother I'm over here, but I earn wages are small, they are living in poverty, 17 years old I do not know how to do, give him a call. He went to vocational school to get my brother to school, tuition is his submitted. I am grateful, I do not know how to repay him. Then he travel to about me, and I agreed, in return, he and I had that kind of thing. After that, I hate myself, do not want him to contact. may as This time I was pregnant, I have never met such a thing, I do not know how to run, did not dare say that friends and family, had gave him a call, it is so intertwined with me and him.
he very responsible, very nice to me, I'm with him for eight years, he is both my elders and my teacher. my brother and I now everything he gave, he said, can not give my home, but I hope I have a good . with his relationship to the current unit of work I have to know the two Secretaries, and he divorced, very nice to me, we are together I feel what love is, but he heard that there are between me and a leader, he said that the eyes of others I'm a bad woman, how do I explain that he did not believe. He said it was too small, he can not accept. Since he has not called me after the call. To escape, I got someone to flash married,UGG boots, but I do not like him, even a little annoying, but his parents well, he conditions can be, we say that a good marriage July 1, but now I think he is not I'm looking for, I would like to end up on the From marriage to the parents and their wishes are. but a pain in my heart, I know I do not.
no matter how red mouth and white teeth that you are with the youth's body in exchange for all of today, the price Public opinion is the man you want to miss. This is the principle of fair exchange price, you should accept the reality. But now since the decision to marry someone else to take over with others, how can I not married to getting divorced?
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12, a smart woman to do when you encounter the following should be how to do? LG said the field trip to three days back and found the second night he was back to the local, asked in the field, he said, and the date and no home to live. Will Shun Shun sister, or equipment to expose a fool?
expose him, it is possible Fuqifanmu, decorum when he mentioned divorce, you accept this? play the fool, the right of marriage for the continuation of the body. regardless of say what to do, anyway hurt your heart is doomed in the future is to live his life, and stop worrying about his well-being or traces, and he loves to make trouble, we wings of a hard, fly right away, do not head back. < br> hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
13, found her husband having an affair, was only suspected of no evidence that he did not admit it. The evidence he has completely identified. He was with her more than a year, during the one-child played. A start their contacts, to conceal her husband married status. According to her husband that he would like to break up and accidentally hurt her eyes, and he admitted that like her. My husband wanted me to forgive him, and he is willing to return, and he asked me to join him compensation for the girl because she the economic downturn, the eye because my husband was injured. If you do not compensate for the girl, the family will not let him. I do not agree. The most important thing is I am willing to forgive him and let him return when talking to the girl that was helping her husband, that I still healthy, did not work you can find, looking for work can find a man on his way, and her disability, and as he hit a child, did not have a good rest, maybe the future will be infertile.
I said I was 30, because the financial crisis did not work, how can a man ready for me? He wanted me to be optimistic not pessimistic. These words completely infuriated me. My dad is also a result of these words to his beat up. Now he asked me, saying that we and her off, well and my life. But I want a divorce, my parents also support the divorce. because I can not pay into the back of the youth, and we were not kids. shun shun you say it?
any case can not be this man, because he was shameless to the extreme. But do not listen to him, give it to restore the marriage chick Han compensation, you do not need to pay for his betrayal, which is the principle to adhere to, otherwise he will continue to stolen, you have to constantly take the money to give him the backside, if he sets out a woman so set out your money, you even think about turning over the rest of my life. Second, he said that after a few words really looking to play, also his father beat him you deserve, a lot of shameless people, but not every guy is like a shameless him so plausible, so this shameless kick the guy is Nyaya quickly choose a divorce on the right.
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14, her boyfriend than me, is a very trustworthy boy, he was 23, I 25, to discuss next year engagement. His family is not very good, and I said, with the second half of the money making room for engagement (because my mother that, at least to pay a down payment to engagement). because I am older, I want to licensing of his first year. but he seems to look a bit dodge. that no time. reluctant leader also said line does not lead is required. He bent to marry before I can say. I think the early licensing of him should be happy. He that mean? I think he was a boy, engaged me to lend him the money if the point not too outrageous, right? he felt all right. feel his family is not very sensible, and I live together with him before, his family knew, but then I moved out from his 20-minute drive, but his sister and his that I did wrong. I think has been wrong before and you live, and then live together again as something, how others see me? feel married into his family will be more wrong. coupled with his very poor family, his young age and small , licensing of another dodge, I'd like to hear the views of Shun Shun sister.
said he was trustworthy in front of the back that he wanted to marry you refused a license and would like to tell you the engagement of money, do not you think you very successful if it? large 2-year-old than the others, knowing that his family was poor, still went to bed together, and now you leisurely people, not that you asked for it? In fact, you do not need to rush him engaged, we continue to choose to choose one option, there is better than he immediately replaced, the reasons are quite sufficient: when you call you receive do not receive certificates Well, since you so afraid of you I'm tied down, I tied to someone else for.
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15, I'm 27 he was 33, divorced with a daughter with his ex-wife 5 years old. He is full of guilt because of her daughter, so her daughter is very good, 2 to 3 weeks to her back again, often can not help her daughter tears. We exchange a year, he was very nice to me, have seen their parents, I have lived in his parents home, now the talk of marriage, he suddenly said to me, not to bear children later we got married, I want to All the love I gave her everything. I was angry, he wanted to fish and eat it, not leave me, want to make up for her daughter's guilt, the responsibility to make his father, with ex-wife has not remarried. I think he is very conscious, not handled properly the relationship, you say how can I do?
Since you're looking for divorced men with children, you have to understand the feelings of his children, if not, simply do not find such man. Now the differences is whether or not you have another baby, if you must want to have to find another bar another man. man obsessed with their children, this is not a drawback, but a conflict of interest with you.
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16, the day before the computer mysteriously turned boyfriend, girlfriend, before he found a few nude photos, hidden. night angry with him, he said he really forget, forget that such a thing, forget deleted. He was very sincere apology, and a lot of playing his own hand. I ask my sister how to right along the face of this? I know that after all these are things in the past, and I love him, he loves me. can I make life difficult for the bucket, the total brain think of those images, along sister, how can I adjust my attitude? if I have been able to go, not even with his ML, because the psychological shadow. has been not forget, can not let go how to do? What really want to break up ?
first quickly delete those photos, or if spread out, and destroyed more than a girl, your boyfriend will not be easy. Second, that picture is definitely in the photo before you, you are deliberately finding fault angry He also did not expect and the former girlfriend, he did not think you can dig out the photos, so you'd better forget these things, the growth of class when you were her boyfriend at the time you visit the next tunnel. So break up to boring, no proof of these photos, they slept, in the end you are regardless of the evidence, or do care about the facts? care about his not a virgin, then it would not take these photos say things.
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17, my husband and I now have a vocational education in the country. As my character, and after taking into account the children go to school, I would like to emphasize the city. content with her husband, he felt less pressure of work, wages can be, good, reluctant to enter the city. into the city looking for relationships, in general, do not they go together. But we very good relationship, I do not want the two separated. Furthermore, the city is not looking quite sure of the relationship, So I contradictions, do not know how to choose: to fight into or stay behind? If you were me how would choose? By the way, along sister a question: Do you think people live to enjoy life is important (the premise: a relatively stable ordinary work) or important cause of fighting?
mobilization can be hard, but what kind of results, do not care too much. ancestral willing to reward meal to optimistic attitude to it. for me, will try to fight for everything they want under, to less than another said. enjoy life cause conflict and struggle? I think not, because part of life is work.
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18, wanted to tell you something my dad and me, this troubled me for years even as I write this letter, I kill him in efforts to hold back the idea. My family has never been war, my father loved curse, the family face accused by his relatives over the basic, favorite curse me. I go to school, he because of my hair too high a point tie, shoes bought Chromic, clothing color ring true that he intended for me furious. I'm a big age, he also intensified, male students call me, and he called me violence; I'm looking for boyfriend is short, he also scolded (I wonder, I'm looking for a boyfriend that I live with others, but not with others he had, he moved what?). he called sensational word, ; to accompany people to sleep, smart (in fact, that his business is not large). He boasts of does not matter, the problem is still teasing me that he boasted that I was not mm of shit, and I grew up he never praised me, only the rejected, that I foolish home, work or sweep the streets for me, and then another pile of dirty curse word. this time I had sleepless nights because of his words (and there have been before), can not sleep at night, just as bored with a pillow him to death. said his daughter wife, how he hated my people in the world? I do not know how to do, would like to ask Soon sister have strokes it? Do not let me communicate with him, if you can communicate I would not write this letter the.
moving out, as little as possible to go home and do not cost him a penny. you only fully independent, he can understand, like you and he has the character of human rights.
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19, I married three years with her husband and a daughter. now one year old daughter, I'm getting unhappy. things from last year, I was pregnant when her mother came after me in August, but she actually the sister sub- and sister sub-boss lead to. evening, I arranged the room, they go to one o'clock or sleep. the original mother and sister sub-partner lied to me, sister child going to a foreign owner of a house to sleep. I was furious, after all, sister child has not divorced, What kind of things! appalling is that my husband also accused me of bad manners. I was angry, cursed them immoral. She said that the boss does not hug her daughter could not sleep. I'm pissed. Results sister sub now birth to a baby, marriage did not leave. but I really can not face this family. I was either pregnant body, I really want them to shove off. Now I'm biased against them and do not want to see them, and do not want to They speak, for my husband also has a crisis of confidence.
you even if you are honest and upright, but also worthwhile, and her mother sister son angry middle of the night, ah, sister is not your sister, if you do not understand this point, you may gnaw at him a good? sister steal people with thee, her mother supported her brother, was a round to you? little later on with his family and from'd, because his family to work insane, a man with no principles, but on the face or to maintain the relationship , we not worthwhile and full of people than we care about ah.
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20, I'm 27 years old, have had failed marriages. just get a divorce, that is, valley bottom of my life, met her boyfriend now. He years younger than me, is the senior student, graduating in July this year. At first we are like two hedgehogs heating each other, and he after me, I do not agree. Poguanposhuai mood for later, and I frankly told him to love, can be good, or even ML, but it can not fall in love with you. he was probably lonely, and he agreed. rules of the game: No fall in love with each other, if there is one person breaking the rules, only out! then we separated, I found I fell in love with him, he loves me. we Huhututu together, living together! Now his family and friends already know I exist. long before he can be said that he did not want to get married, he was afraid of marriage. occasionally about this issue now, he still said he did not want to get married. Perhaps because of his poor relationship between the bar home, his parents divorced, no house, dad and stepmother for his work in the field study. He said that just want to make more money. I can feel he loves me, but I really do not know how to do, and I want a home with him, even though the poor nothing home. wise shun sister, you call me wake up, I'm so really changed as silly.
you do not silly, silly people eating the tender grass of the wishes? not. there stupid as to engage people to divorce did not graduate from college kids? not. a failed marriage, no lessons learned lesson, it is not silly people can do, only that you super-confident, self-confidence to think that no material requirements for a man, a man can will your history. Then he was to be out of school, far away from the marriage yet, if you can Aode Zhu, etc. Well, it would continue and his Well.
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21, the existing two men and AB, A former boyfriend, first love; B is the current boyfriend. often trivial and B noisy, personality clashes, and A with never quarrel, but, and that he as a child when A, B to mature, have the ability. now A is still waiting for me, I do not know how to choose. feel B is more suitable for marriage object, do not bother to bring a sense of responsibility, but do not know how to coax girls, but also a bit irritable temper. do not know get along well in the end is the choice, or choose the ability, professionalism and strong? I was a little big woman, do not want to be neglect, heard what I always wanted. B a little big man.
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